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Do I just ignore it?

I started dating this guy I met about 2 weeks ago (we went on dates but after the 6th day of knowing him we made it official) and I thought that it was fast but why not? Today, while on the phone, we had a silence and he interrupts it with "babe...i love you". I said "what?" And he said "nothing". That ended the phone call. Now should I just pretend it never happened or should I just finally break it off? (I have suspisions that he has other girls so I kinda dont like how untrusting i am of him)
HypnoKitten · 41-45, M
Other women, eh, that's a diff topic that I won't touch (what's important for you is all that matters) but 6th date 'I love you' is a tad fast. Often develops into puppydogs or dramatic stuff.. I kinda get nervous at that. But guess if he's your age maybe it's not that unusual, I thought I was in love all the time I guess. Just don't stress and you do you, have fun, and don't feel rushed to say it back - you're going to have soooo many more opportunities in the future, even if not with him
I would get to know him better, see how he is around other people, with his peers, friends and family. He might have more lust than love. However you have your suspicions so proceed slowly and cautiously. Either he's a stand up and devoted guy to you, or let someone else have him. Relationships without trust are doomed to fail.
Primnproper · 56-60, F
Guys that have other girls do not normally rush to the L word unless they want you to put out..maybe he possibly has fallen hard for you..don't judge him harshly till you have some proof or you could be passing up a good guy..
Flenflyys · 31-35, F
Guys have always told me early they love me, maybe we are just that fabulous.

But I'd investigate the other girls situation.
Flenflyys · 31-35, F
What if she likes this guy, her suspicions could be completely unfounded. I'd find out before I act.
SugarRush · 31-35, F
That's why I said I - it was personal opinion to me. She knows him and herself and suspicions.
Flenflyys · 31-35, F
Ok thanks
SW-User
2 week's is not love. Girl trust me about this. Every guy I have been with told me they loved me. Just a saying
SugarRush · 31-35, F
If you already have suspicions, why stay?
Goralski · 51-55, M
He just choked no biggie

 
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