have you ever met a couple were the woman is far more successful than the man and richer ?

A few, yes, even one where the man stayed home to look after the kids, it turned out okay, it seems, they're still together

ive known of quite a lot of women who are with men who either don’t work at all or have shittier/lesser paid jobs

I am not wealthy. But I often have made more than the men I have been with. I am tired of it. Really. One guy turned out to be selfish. He didn't want to spend a cent on me. Enough. I want a man who is financially independent. The men have always said it didn't bother them. But it did. I am no sap. Get out there and make a living. And treat me regularly too. I am not a princess. I am a deserving woman. Rant over. Seriously.

So many I have seen personally I have learnt the hard way. But what you said it's what I believe too

That's usually how it works, but exceptions always exist.

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