Is texting a guy often annoying?

Ok, I’ve been in not so great relationships in the past and right now, I met this guy who is super amazing and I just want to make this right. We’re currently in a long distance relationship/friendship. He has a busy job and doesn’t text or call me often but I can feel that he still loves me. My question is, how often of messaging him will come off as annoying?

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SW-User

What does he do? Just curious.

I would ask him if it's okay to text whenever you're thinking about him or if you should wait until he replies. Everyone is different. Some like to still get a message even if they are busy. But only he can truly tell you that.

Yopi16 · 31-35, F

Thank you for this. I just usually wait until he replies. He usually messages me only like 2-5 times a day this week. Maybe I’m just going crazy. Lol but yeah, I just don’t want to be annoying@SW-User

SW-User

@Yopi16 Next time you're chatting on the phone, just bring it up and see what he says. Tell him you worry about being annoying.

Yopi16 · 31-35, F

Yeah, i should do that. Thank you so much @SW-User

SW-User

@Yopi16 You're welcome. And good luck. :)