How many chances should be given?

My ex wants to stay in touch. Yet idk. We had a two year online relationship, and he became controlling, overly clingy, and if I sent a message in the wrong order messed up in a video game or anything I’d get yelled at for hours and cursed at. If I hung out with my friends he’d cry til I went home and played video games with him, he forced me to stay up late at night and threw off my sleep schedule. I’ve given him like 6 chances. Should I do it again?

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SW-User

Tell him to get screwed

Tryingtofindabalance · 36-40, M

@SW-User maybe that’s what he is trying do...

SW-User

@Tryingtofindabalance oh 😄

Tminus6453 · M

You really need to ask this?... sounds like you're all ready to go in for chance number 7 then 8 and eventually 9.

marcusaurelius

@Tminus6453 answer right here

RumorHasIt · F

That’s not a relationship sweetheart.. you deserve much better

SW-User

Seriously?? If you're in any kind of doubt, no.

Goralski · 56-60, M

D seventh chance is d charm🙄

JordanAlorow · 26-30, M

move on

Tryingtofindabalance · 36-40, M

I think you know the answer to this one...

Kanimaz · 22-25, F

Yeah, but I’m just worried that it’s rude to just stop talking to someone like that @Tryingtofindabalance

Tryingtofindabalance · 36-40, M

@Kanimaz can’t move on if they are continuously in your life

HannibalMontanimal · 26-30, M

How do you feel about giving him another chance

Kanimaz · 22-25, F

Scared@HannibalMontanimal

HannibalMontanimal · 26-30, M

@Kanimaz Up to you... worst that could happen is he fucks it up

caccoon · 36-40

Six chances sounds like five too many.

If you read what you wrote, and pretend it's a friend you care about that wrote it, or a sibling... what would you tell them?

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