its easy to say "move on", but how can you move on, if you still in love with that person?

I met someone 10 years ago and people told me to move on over the 8 years we kept breaking up and getting back together. I still love him now, it's not as intense as it was but I definitely love him. The love has changed but it's still there all the same. Don't try to stop loving them try to find a way to live you more and learn to live with that love.