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Was she right to go

OK, so if you have just broken up from your wife right, but she sometimes comes round to see you, as she has moved out of your apartment to be with someone else, but she has left some of her shit behind and you never bothered to move it out.
OK, so you take a date out for a meal and all goes well, so she comes back to yours. Sitting there drinking wine and has to go to the bathroom, notices some of your ex-wifes perfume and you tell her that she moved out but left that behind. Would that put a damper on things?
If she gets into bed with you and there like a few reminders of your ex around would that also kill the mood for her right? As she said to me, that by keeping these reminders of her around, that shows I have not yet moved on, she got dressed and wanted to leave.
dumpstermeow · 41-45, F
Seeing stuff still there would tell me it's way too soon to get involved with you intimately. Get a box, but the stuff into the box and either give it back or toss it.
Bernie2 · 51-55, M
@dumpstermeow Well I aksed if i could see her again and she was like "are you fucking crazy?"
SW-User
@Bernie2 😂😂😂 oh my
Bernie2 · 51-55, M
@SW-User Thanks...guess that is a no then?
goagainsttheflow · 26-30, F
Just hide your ex's stuff next time or donate it to Goodwill if your ex doesn't want her stuff back.
goagainsttheflow · 26-30, F
@Bernie2 I'm sure she'll cool off after a bit. It's not your fault your ex left her stuff.
Bernie2 · 51-55, M
@goagainsttheflow I know, she moved out in a hurry and left some bits behind. I just wondered what the drama was?
goagainsttheflow · 26-30, F
@Bernie2 She'll just have to believe you. You didn't do anything wrong 🤷
she might not believe you... like think you're a lying married cheater or something
SW-User
Yes that would be a red flag. I dated a guy that wasn't over his ex wife and tried to use me as a way to make her jealous. I would not feel comfortable with a guy keeping keepsakes of his ex wife around.
SW-User
I think that it's possible it could, and she was uncomfortable. She's cautious, which is a good thing.
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