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Why do ppl insult you when you reject them ?

There's thiq guy who claims to love me very much, and it did seem like it. Thing is I was not feeling comfortable, and we were not compatible, nothing in common, literally nothing. So i refused.
at first he was okay, he said I respext your choice. Although it took a week of I don't want this for him to get it because he was acting all dramatic.
Then few days later. I received a bunch of insults by message. So after some days I became worthless, and he doesn't even know why he liked me, and i wasnt special anyways. Okay this is meh whatever.
but again some days later, I became a man eater b#tch, evil, mean and unsensitive, cold and a devil in human form.
If anything he's showing I did well in rejecting him.
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NeloAngelo · 26-30, M
quite a bit of it is being defensive. it takes a fair bit buck up n tell someone you like them and the anxiety of being rejected. in this case it was so he probably felt embarrassed or vulnerable and most people don't react well here. quite a few lash out and that's all it really is.

not saying this for his sympathy this still immature n soz u had to go through it but thats usually why this is the reaction.