How do you avoid infidelity?

If you’re in a relationship how do you resist temptation? This is something I really struggle with. I understand people say if you really loved the person you wouldn’t cheat on them and they’d be enough for you. I could genuinely love someone but still dabble in other situations. I want to get better. I’ve ruined a few relationships in the past due to infidelity.

This page is a permanent link to the reply below and its nested replies. See all post replies »

sighmeupforthat · 46-50, M

Why even be in a relationship then???

This will hurt ya in the long run.

Not Sure what else to say..... other than it seems you're trying to make sense of it all.

KaciAlex · 26-30, F

@sighmeupforthat it usually isn’t until well into the relationship where I feel like I want to venture off. I get bored. Also, it’s an ego thing for me. The thought that someone else wants me makes me feel good. Sometimes powerful. I’ve been cheated on and it hurts. I’m just conflicted.