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In a relationship, what is your interpretation/definition of cheating on the other half?

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SmileSunshine · 31-35, F
Yup I totally agree. Struggling because he’s trying to win me back but it’s really hard to trust again. @math7
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SW-User
Doing something with someone behind your partner’s back that will compromise the relationship.
SmileSunshine · 31-35, F
Gahhh this is exactly what my ex did. Okay thanks this is really helpful. @SW-User
SW-User
Anything that the other would consider unacceptable that was done without their knowledge.
Chatting in person or on line can be cheating if it threatens the integrity of your relationship with your SO. My notion of ‘coupleness’ is we each go our way and do our thing, but when we’ve got something to share with someone, physical affection or intimate conversation, we share it with the SO.
Doing anything that you wouldn't consider telling your other half. That includes anything hidden as well as anything involving hidden behaviour. That's my thoughts.
SmileSunshine · 31-35, F
See it’s interesting because he doesn’t consider flirting as with others as cheating but I do...@PoetryNEmotion
@SmileSunshine Yes. Each of us has different lines and standards. I could say I enjoy flirting because I do, and my partner doesn't mind me doing it. But someone else might get jealous. That's why it is so imperative to discuss behaviours and actions in relationships.
Northwest · M
If you're doing anything you feel you have to hide from your partner, you're cheating.
SmileSunshine · 31-35, F
Yah especially when he lies about it and you have evidence. @Northwest
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SmileSunshine · 31-35, F
@Soccergirl2016 I can imagine! Haha
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PotPrincess1 · 36-40, M
Any kind of deceit or wrong doing

If you want to do things with others then let your partner know. Perhaps seek open relationships if you struggle to commit to one person
SmileSunshine · 31-35, F
Thank you. I’m trying to figure out what my ex considers as cheating...I feel as if he cheated on me, lied to me about talking to other women while in a relationship...don’t know if they did anything physically but I have evidence that they were flirting through text. @PotPrincess1
ExtremeNext · 31-35
If he ate more than half of the fries from McDonald's if we were sharing a meal
I hate that shit
SmileSunshine · 31-35, F
Haha yes! @ExtremeNext
tallpowerhouseblonde · 31-35, F
Anything sexual with someone other than your partner without their agreement.
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SW-User
as little as kissing is cheating, though only if it was with the sex/s they are attracted to. eg if a gay guy kisses a girl, it's not cheating in my eyes
LoyalPervert · 26-30, M
Watching porn is a cheating
SmileSunshine · 31-35, F
@LoyalPervert ooooooh is it to you? Have you been cheated by someone who was addicted?
LoyalPervert · 26-30, M
@SmileSunshine if we are in committee relationship then yes, it is wrong. But if someone is unable to satiafy he can allow. Never.
BirthYear1993 · 26-30, M
Thinking about other woman is a cheating
Gentlequill · 51-55, M
Eatin' aint cheatin' !! Lol

 
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