I have a second date with a boy but I don't feel so great about it.

It's not a question. It's just me, venting.

I have a second date with this cute asian guy but I feel like he's not that into me.
He's the one who asked me if I wanted to go to a picnic date with him and I accepted but he barely shows any interest other than that. I feel like i'm wasting my time with him.
I'm so dramatic lol

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mountainman1234 · 70-79, M

You could be wasting your time yes ,, but maybe he is of the old school and taking things slow and wants to find more about to see if maybe you do have what it takes to go the distance,,,,

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mountainman1234 · 70-79, M

ok but talking is a major part of getting to know someone maybe you could ask him if he is interested in a long term relationship ,,or is he just filling in time ,,,

onlytimewilltell · 26-30, F

I'll ask him some questions subtly if I'm not too shy once I'm there lol @mountainman1234

mountainman1234 · 70-79, M

Yes that would be the way to go about it but do not be shy ,,, or you may lose something you would enjoy later ,,

Qwerty14

Sounds like you shouldnt hold your breath. Also the fact that you described him as Asian for no reason seems concerning

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Qwerty14

@onlytimewilltell Still odd to bring up for no reason. If the story doesn't require us to know he's Asian then it's just racist lol

onlytimewilltell · 26-30, F

So, I'm going to have a date with a guy I low-key like who appears to be Asian. Knowing I am from Asia you are saying I am racist because I pointed it out. Hmm, if he was white i would'v'e said "cute white boy" as well. You may think I am racist, it's your opinion but I think you are DUMB AS HELL.

No need to respond, you'll be blocked if you do. I'm here to chill not to be bothered by some weirdos.

@Qwerty14

Qwerty14

@onlytimewilltell Yes pointing out he is white is also racist. Block me if you must but I wouldn't describe that as being chill lol

SW-User

Give him sometime he could late bloomer

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