Are there men who really WILL fight for love?

And I mean if there’s an obvious connection, maybe you’ve been together for a while and things are shaky...or, maybe you see the potential and know she’s been hurt so there are walls up?

For me, I’ve always been the one to fight for it. With my ex husband, I tried for so many years. Talked to him about it, went to marriage therapy, gave romance, etc... but he never tried to fight for it with me. With an ex boyfriend it was the same thing. These are just my experiences so I’m genuinely curious...

Are there men that would reciprocate? Or be persistent enough not to give up so easily?

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wintersecret · 41-45, M

In my case, we both are doing the same for each other.
Meant to say dont wanna giveup on the lovely relationship we have.

TenderHeart · 46-50, F

thats good! If it’s a good relationship it’s worth getting over the bumps for

wintersecret · 41-45, M

@TenderHeart i completely agree.

We cannot clap with One Hand. it takes Two to Tango similarly in relationship

One-side Efforts always end up on bad side and the giver looses everything including Self esteem and confidence unless the person don't take right decision.

Sorry, hope my words dont hurt your sentiments..

TenderHeart · 46-50, F

No, I agree

wintersecret · 41-45, M

@TenderHeart Frankly, i have seen Some Woman continues to be in the train which leads them to nowhere with hopes still high for reaching the destination.

I used to Wonder Why then realized that
they have forgone own self for the Family and kids.

Just wish that the good deeds they did for family should be rewarded well..