Are there men who really WILL fight for love?

And I mean if there’s an obvious connection, maybe you’ve been together for a while and things are shaky...or, maybe you see the potential and know she’s been hurt so there are walls up?

For me, I’ve always been the one to fight for it. With my ex husband, I tried for so many years. Talked to him about it, went to marriage therapy, gave romance, etc... but he never tried to fight for it with me. With an ex boyfriend it was the same thing. These are just my experiences so I’m genuinely curious...

Are there men that would reciprocate? Or be persistent enough not to give up so easily?

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Miram · 31-35, F

There are men who would stand by you no matter what. Understand your flaws and character defects and understand their own wants from the relationship and their own capabilities. Strong individuals fight for their loved ones.

Some after losing you, they want to fight 🙆 they want to make it right.

Some only fight for what they can never have. They long for an idea they created about you. A delusion of you and of a potential life.

The more deluded the love, the quicker you fall out of it.

So many can't learn to appreciate their attainments, want more, better..

This applies to both sexes.

UndeadPrivateer · 31-35, M

@Miram Well said.