How long do you usually wait before you do the deed when you’re seeing someone new?

My coworker told me that she is making her current boyfriend wait two months.

Made me feel like I put out a little too soon. The longest I’ve ever waited was like two weeks.

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greenmountaingal · 70-79, F

I guess I am an old woman here. But it amazes me that you, like most younger people on here, make the assumption that when you are seeing someone, sex is inevitable and automatically expected. Also, that rather than following feelings or reacting to the evolution of the relationship, you want to pre-select a specific arbitrary time for it to occur.

Like I said, I'm old. And glad I no longer date now that romance is totally dead and buried.