Which would men prefer?

A woman who is overweight, and not model gorgeous - but sweet, kind and intelligent

Or

A woman who is build like a model, gorgeous and head turning - but is vein, not as smart and more high matenance?

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SteelHands · 61-69, M

Can someone tell me why the ugly chubby defective face women are usually the vain, low intelligence, snobs?

Why is it that the ones that have a good face and a nice shape area always the shy, quiet, extremely self conscious, and the nicest ones -once you get talking with them?

Most women have a pretty good demeanor but those really half baked wicked witches are also hard on the eyes.

Can anyone explain that to me?

Montanaman · M

@SteelHands sounds kinda shallow to me. In my experience, each and every woman can be either. They come from all walks of life, and their past experiences shape them, as yours does. I take all people at face value, and never judge, not stereotype, not categorize or label.
But that's just me.

TenderHeart · 46-50, F

Overweight women get crapped on by society. A lot of these women get bitter and mad but don’t know how to channel it. It’s a defense thing for some...

The other I can’t say lol@SteelHands

TenderHeart · 46-50, F

Yes! Past experience and society @Montanaman

SteelHands · 61-69, M

@TenderHeart but not always. Sometimes I meet a heavy girl that has a cheerful way and you can see how pretty a smile and they're married and happy as a lark.

I mean those kinds that might be pretty but they walk around doing things and saying things like men are all over them all the time.

And there's not a lot of them but these ones, they really seem like they think they are so above everyone. But they're not.