I think my tinder match has a girlfriend?🤨

I dunno guys but you can link your Instagram profile to your tinder profile so others can view your pictures and it seems he has a gf? She follows him but he doesn’t follow her but they post about each other the way couples do Hm. I’m only making a big deal bc I don’t wanna talk to him and develop a crush already knowing he’s got a gf lol like he’s a cool dude and I wouldn’t mind being friends. We text a little bit but nothing flirty. He’s a creative type like me so we could network that way I suppose! Or maybe I just shouldn’t get involved with him at all😹

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NoYou · 26-30, M

have you asked him?

Sb356 · 26-30, F

@NoYou I kind of asked “so are you on tinder to network with like minded people?” Because that’s what I was assuming and people actually do that (including myself) but he was like “what’s that? Is that like the “making friends” of tinder?” And I explained to him the idea of networking but he didn’t really say exactly what he was there for so I dunno.

NoYou · 26-30, M

@Sb356 hm idk.. i dont like the sound of this tbh caause honestly a few of my friends do this and its to have side chicks which is beyond me how they have the time to do that but yea it happens alot and thats what this looks like.

Sb356 · 26-30, F

Yeah I totally get that. I dunno though he doesn’t really seem interested in me that way though. That’s why I assumed he was only trying to network. Like he’s never even flirted with me lol but I won’t rule it out. People can be cruel. It’s beyond me as well. I dunno how people can manage that lol

NoYou · 26-30, M

@Sb356 yea just be wary.. I have a rule.. when in doubt remember theres more so move on. If shes (he in your case) is really interested they will make the effort..which has occasionally happened for me

Sb356 · 26-30, F

@NoYou you’re absolutely right ugh I wasn’t even thinking of it like that but it’s a good thing to keep in mind💆🏽‍♀️ I mean there’s a million ways this can go but I’m just gonna play it safe. Thanks!