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Why people say stop looking for love and let it find you?

I have been looking a girlfriend as I never had one before. And when I was looking for it, I could not find it and people told me to stop looking. And they say If I keep on looking for it I will never find it. And there said it will only happen unexpectedly. So nine years ago at the age of 24 I stopped looking for a girlfriend and got on with enjoying my life and today at age 33 it has still not happened and when I said looking or not looking either way does not happen, people say just enjoy my life and say if it meant to find me, it will. Love has still not found me at all, I am still single at age 33 and still a virgin and If i end up being single all my life, I will be such an angry man because life without relationship for me is so unfair. I be so angry if I end up being single for the whole of my life. LIFE WITHOUT RELATIONSHIP FOR ME IS SO UNFAIR, LIFE WITHOUT RELATIONSHIP FOR ME IS SO UNFAIR, LIFE WITHOUT RELATIONSHIP FOR ME IS SO UNFAIR, LIF
JovialPlutonian · 36-40, M
I feel you brother, I'm very similar. I can be quite obsessive and find now that I don't actually want a relationship with anyone at all. You keep your hopes up and when you meet someone you think yeh cool, then you invest some time into it and you find they weren't ideal for you so all that time is wasted. My enthusiasm has depleted and now I reject anyone who shows any interest in me. Love is a bit of a bitch at times but it is all down to attitude. So it's not to say I haven't been in relationships but feel more like a tease. I find love very difficult and genuinely prefer to be on my own, not that I ever thought I'd say that.
LyricalOne · F
@JovialPlutonian You’re speaking to SW’s most prolific troll.
JovialPlutonian · 36-40, M
@LyricalOne oh well I have no issue exposing myself, better than hiding behind a facade like the majority of the population.
LyricalOne · F
@JovialPlutonian Alrighty then.
people used to give me that same cliche advice. I hated it too. I wanted a partner as well. Not just a fuck buddy either, an actual relationship. I don't know what advice to give you.
LyricalOne · F
@BetweenKittensandRiots Don’t worry, he’s a troll.
you still post this thing?

 
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