What is the most important thing in a relationship?

@summersun that would be perfection.....rare

@Fernie true but we should all at least try

[@summersun Realistically, reaching perfection in a relationship is not something I personally would ever aim for.

@Fernie I am not saying we should aim for perfection but the question states what is the most important thing in a relationship. I don't think there is one. All of the elements of a relationship are equally important hence my answer balance of all elements

@summersun anyway, it's all relative