How do I get a boyfriend? I am now 25 and I have never had a boyfriend. I sometimes become so...

Mamapolo2016 · F

Love yourself, sweetie. Posture and carriage says a lot about your self-image. I have known many women who did not look attractive in my eyes. but always had men around them - not because they were easy, but because they were confident and that's attractive.

Do what you need to do so you can believe you've got what it takes, and people around you will believe it too.

Acadiaisgone · 22-25, F

Go out. Go somewhere you never usually go, (where you can meet people of course). Try a dating app, but be careful with that as well, lol.

Fluffypanda · F

I was the exact person like you some 3 years back. I had low self esteem, would desperately seek for a boyfriend, get jealous with most of my female friends. But then I tried focusing on myself rather then others and surprisingly it get better for me. Yeah it did took some time but now I never went back to the same old version of me.

sighmeupforthat · 46-50, M

are you really ready to complicate your life? what about your career, future, where you want to live and all that other fancy stuff.

NeuroticByNature · 41-45, F

The most attractive thing on anyone is confidence. It helps to smile and make eye contact.

SerenitiesScars · 36-40, M

Focus on being physically fit and not so much about the weight... Look up on the internet proper weight for someone your height and sex... And just focus on exercising when you can and eating healthy... Which is kind of the opposite of calorie watching.

Things like the atkins diet have worked for me. You can still have your meat, fruits, vegetables, and dairy but cut out all sugars and breads.

You could try and find another diet type if you prefer. Good luck!

Mamapolo2016 · F

Also, make sure you aren't telegraphing 'stay away' messages because you're not sure of yourself. A LOT of dating/romantic communication is body language. Don't cross your arms to hide your bust. That says 'stay away'. Don't slump, that says 'I'm not interested'. Don't be afraid to show your interest in someone by using eye contact, a hand on his sleeve when you're talking or laughing. Men are just as fragile as women, and they don't like to risk making a move if they might get shot diwn.

Lonelymanik · 36-40, M

Busty and short is sexy.. there are guys like me who are in to girls like u.. well being fit is also good but becoming too thin won't make u look good coz for some ppl their own body is better looking . Fit Makes u more confident but that doesn't mean u r less attractive..

blazingrahul · 41-45, M

Most good life is when u single I experienced that