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Found a business card from a woman in husbands things?

Its pink has gold lips on it and it says home cooking from Ms. (Wont out her name. )So i asked him who it was and he didnt tell me yet. Honestly. I did my own research and found her ig and facebook. Shes a old lady with prettyyoung god daughters around my age. I dont think my husband is interested in the cooking over there orthe old woman because im a amazing cook. I do suspect he goes and sits in the company of the pretty women that go over to her house. Shes like a community cook for neighborhoods and my husband has been going out making alot of friends and going out to lunch with his friend on sundays. He made new female friends on facebook too. Im not the jealous tbh im kinda bi lol. I just feel like if my husband is so thirsty for other women or being in the company of other women so much why wont he leave me. Im not jumping to conclusions I just dont know whats going on with my husband and i havent met all the new friends he made during our long seperation where we were getting a divorce.
frequentlyme · 70-79, M Best Comment
Don't live this way - just don't. I'm not suggesting he is doing anything, I am saying you need to address this with him and ask for an answer... no B.S., or no not answering. As it stands, it sounds as if he is out playing and you are letting it go. Not good for you, and you not dealing with it allows him to set the ground rules. Just my 2 cents worth.
tallpowerhouseblonde · 31-35, F
@frequentlyme true.A heart to heart no BS or threats.
frequentlyme · 70-79, M
@tallpowerhouseblonde Yep, no accusations or threats. Just tell him how you feel, what you see, etc. Then ask for a reasonable answer. Keep it all in the "me" and not in the "you". As in because of this, "I" feel this way. Not as in "you make me feel".

Ask him your questions. Figure out what he is thinking and where your relationship is going.
MarineBob · 56-60, M
Time for you to start making him jealous
Jphidingrose · 26-30, F
@MarineBob he doesnt really get jealous because i need to lose weight and get my sexy back and he knows it. I do have some pretty cool things going on I got a new job and im actively working on my weightloss journey
@Jphidingrose Don’t sell yourself short. Not saying making him jealous is the answer, but there are men who I’m sure would find you sexy. If they were to start giving you attention he’d probably feel a little of what you’re feeling now.
Daisy50 · 51-55, F
tough one.He doesn't want to talk which would make me worry.
tallpowerhouseblonde · 31-35, F
You could always just ask him or get a PI to follow him if you think he is having an effect an affair.
Jphidingrose · 26-30, F
@tallpowerhouseblonde i asked him and sent the pic i took ofthe card hes getting off work right now. Were trying to save our house right now so i dont have money for the pi right now. Also he has threatned me with a divorce after every fight we have.
tallpowerhouseblonde · 31-35, F
@Jphidingrose sounds like you are better off without him.

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