Guys...Do You Open the Door for a Girl?

My daughter started dating this guy and after the third date she asked him why he didn't open the car door for her. He responded, "Can't you do it?" She said, "Of course I can, but it would be nice if you did." My husband always opens the door for me, runs and opens doors for other people, holds the elevator door open for people, helps them with their groceries, returns shopping carts, and other simple but kindly gestures (FYI... my daughters and I also do these things). Is it a lost thing? Maybe I'm old fashioned, but to me it's just the right thing to do.

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Sicarium · 46-50, M

Between extreme feminists screaming that even looking at a girl is sexual harassment, kindergarten classes teaching cis-gendered boys that they were born rapists, and college toxic masculinity classes telling college freshman that asking a girl for her number is virtually rape, just be thankful any kid has the courage to even talk to your daughter.