Guys...Do You Open the Door for a Girl?

My daughter started dating this guy and after the third date she asked him why he didn't open the car door for her. He responded, "Can't you do it?" She said, "Of course I can, but it would be nice if you did." My husband always opens the door for me, runs and opens doors for other people, holds the elevator door open for people, helps them with their groceries, returns shopping carts, and other simple but kindly gestures (FYI... my daughters and I also do these things). Is it a lost thing? Maybe I'm old fashioned, but to me it's just the right thing to do.

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hlpflwthat · M

I wrote a story bout this at Ep - there was a group.

He's already on his way out - whether either of em knows it or not. Her parents raised her better.

livingaloha · 41-45, F

@hlpflwthat The little things someone does tells his/her true character.

hlpflwthat · M

@livingaloha Precisely. No matter how he justifies his position to himself, it's a disappointment for her ... as well as her parents, I imagine.

tiggerandariel13 · 41-45, MVIP

@livingaloha I hope when my 2 oldest girls starting dating I hope the boys open the door for them