Having a bad feeling about them

I just started dating this person and im already not sure about them. Specifically because they keep telling me that if i wear eyeliner or play instruments like the piano or cello (which all apply except the cello), they wont be able to say "no" to me and its therefore a violation of their consent. Personally, i think they might be joking, but if theyre serious thats utter bullshit. It cant just be me who thinks that, and ive had plenty of people play the victim card this way with me. Maybe im being overly cautious, so Ill give em a chance, but im not letting this shit go any farther