So would it be crazy/ creepy if someone traveled across the country to meet someone they've lost contact with years ago

They haven't talked in many years and only talked a few days maybe a week or two.The person is traveling their just in hopes of running into them at place they know she hangs out at. The guy has never talked to another girl or been attracted to another person. He still keeps up with her by twitter. They have almost everything in common. they just drifted apart because of distance nothing on bad terms.

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Yes. He should directly tell her about his feelings and arrange to catch up with her participation and consent.

However, if she is the only girl he has ever bonded with then it doesn't bode well for the future of the relationship. One he could idealise her then be disappointed with reality. Two he would be choosing her from a position of believing he lacks options. We all should have options. Believing he doesn't - or his inability to get on with a range of girls - means he could be unhealthily dependent on - and fixated on her