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Are we more than platonic friends

me and my best friend would consider our friendship platonic. Everyone thinks we are more than what we say we are based off how we interact with each other. I had a crush on him, and the goal was to talk to him in hopes of having a relationship. we never advanced that way instead it got to us being best friends me sleeping over his apartment always with him etc. We're both alike both the same horoscope sign and personality. He finds me attractive but sees me as a sister. He also hates when I mention getting into a relationship and says " sorry for caring about my friend" when I ask him why does he not support my decision yet I support him when he mentions girls. Do you guys think he likes me and just wants to keep us as friends so it does not complicate our friendship? or he cares too much? i also got pregnant so that def changed our friendship but he wanted to be there almost like a dad for my child bc the real dad did not want to be there, which also made me think maybe we could be more.
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RubySoo · 56-60, F
I have a lifelong friend like this.
We were so close as teenagers and loved each other very much....vut we were never bf/gf. He dated other girls and me other boys. We toyed with the idea of getting together....but it never progressed beyond a slow dance...or a kiss....even tho they were electric.
We are still friends 40+ years on.
I don't suppose we would be if we'd got together....
prettybeau1998 · 22-25, F
i jokingly said lets hookup once and he said " maybe if i was drunk yeah" but then sends me himself in his boxers throws me for a loop think ill just stick to being his best friend!@RubySoo
RubySoo · 56-60, F
Being a best friend is a wonderful option. My friend lives in Canada now with his family. He was home a few weeks ago. We went for a night out ( with other friends) and hugged and held hands.....felt wonderful. One of the other guys said to us....'you two always looked good together'.
Sweet x
prettybeau1998 · 22-25, F
do you think if something happened to him and his wife would u take a chance with him?@RubySoo
RubySoo · 56-60, F
@prettybeau1998 lol...
He said things weren't good at home.
If ever we both found ourselves single again.....who knows x