Hdryder555 · 61-69, M
Since you've lost the feeling anyway I'll tell you the truth, she too has or is losing the feeling, as soon as you ship out she will or already has found a new toking buddy.
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Hdryder555 · 61-69, M
@Daniel1120 now you're looking for excuses not to break up.
Do you or do you not want to break up?
Either way with in two weeks after you leave she is smoking it up with and fucking someone new.
Do you or do you not want to break up?
Either way with in two weeks after you leave she is smoking it up with and fucking someone new.
Daniel1120 · 26-30, M
@Hdryder555 I really don’t think she’d be fucking another dude as soon as her bf left for boot camp dude. I can’t help if you’ve been cheated on by whores in the past by not every girl is a slut.
Hdryder555 · 61-69, M
@Daniel1120 Damn "dude" the reality of the real world is not going to slap you on the face, it's going to kick you in the face,
Good luck.
Good luck.
LionessRoars · F
SW-User
Sounds like you two are on different paths. Makes sense for you to let her go. If you two are meant to be, then you all will adjust.
Miram · 31-35, F
I would leave. It's not complicated. Relationships are team efforts. No efforts, no relationship.
Sazzio · 36-40, M
Sorry to hear that. Now I would advise you but lets be honest... You won't pay attention to it!
gurlwatcher22 · 61-69, M
Roll out soldier!Wait for the 'Dear John' letter.
Make HER the bad guy.
Make HER the bad guy.
JaggedLittlePill · 46-50, F
@gurlwatcher22 wow. You are a man in his 50's and this is the best advice you got? Have you been a coward your whole life?
gurlwatcher22 · 61-69, M
Look little miss, this man is going to boot camp to serve our country and to better himself.Also probably to get away from toxic people like his (former?)girlfriend.Do you really think this broad is going to stay true to him once he shoves off?
Have you been a douchebag your whole life?
Have you been a douchebag your whole life?
Magnolia · 31-35, F
I don't see how this is a complicated situation at all. All you've done is talk about all the things you dislike about this girl and it's a pretty long list. I don't see that you're facing any inner battle here. You think she's lazy, thoughtless, stupid and you even called her a twat. You've also taken absolutely no ownership in the failings of this relationship so it's clear that you don't respect her as a partner... Why don't you step up and do what you know needs to be done?
JaggedLittlePill · 46-50, F
I did not even read all of this but I think you know the answer already.
When you can write about your girlfriend and call her a brainless twat(even when just annoyed or irritated) it is time to call it quits.
When you can write about your girlfriend and call her a brainless twat(even when just annoyed or irritated) it is time to call it quits.
Daniel1120 · 26-30, M
@JaggedLittlePill yeah I know I just really don’t want to make her cry and have to try to comfort her and all that. I’ll feel pretty bad too but idk.
JaggedLittlePill · 46-50, F
@Daniel1120 I understand, unfortunately that is part of relationships. You have a big road ahead and seem to be going in a different direction and she will probably be hurt but she will get past it soon enough.