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Scribbles · 36-40, F
Sitting on his lap like I'm two years old, or are you talking about "sitting on a guy's lap" as code for giving him a lapdance?
Mostly I find the first uncomfortable and if I really like the guy I may tolerate it and be relieved when I can get off or be chill about it if it's like a "everyone quick cram in the car and sit on each other's lap because we've run out of room kind of thing . If I like the guy, it's easier, but I don't enjoy it or find it sexy. Giving a guy a lapdance is ok I guess, but it's not much of a turn on for me. Straddling a guy's lap though is sexy for me though. I don't consider that the same as "sitting on a guy's lap" though.
Mostly I find the first uncomfortable and if I really like the guy I may tolerate it and be relieved when I can get off or be chill about it if it's like a "everyone quick cram in the car and sit on each other's lap because we've run out of room kind of thing . If I like the guy, it's easier, but I don't enjoy it or find it sexy. Giving a guy a lapdance is ok I guess, but it's not much of a turn on for me. Straddling a guy's lap though is sexy for me though. I don't consider that the same as "sitting on a guy's lap" though.
@Scribbles I just meant sitting on your guys lap for a few minutes. Not lap dancing. Missing maybe. Watching tv. Just taking it easy.
Scribbles · 36-40, F
@Quietguyinthecorner Ah, then that's not for me. I've tried that many many times for guys who always wanted me sitting on their lap and even if I'm feeling relaxed, I've never enjoyed it much.