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If your partner is paying attention to someone other(opposite gender) and you are jealous will you consult your thoughts to him/her or talk to any other person(opposite gender) to make her/him jealous in too(so he/she might understand what you were feeling)??

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GwydionFrost · 56-60, M

This sort of jealousy indicates a lack of trust.

So, if you don't trust them, why are you with them....?

Nullifier · 22-25, M

@GwydionFrost ooh then what is "that sort" of jealousy???and I guess jealously is part of every relationship ✋

GwydionFrost · 56-60, M

@Nullifier Um. No, it's not. Jealousy is YOUR fears and insecurities trumping her actions. On a planet that has roughly 3.5 billion members of the opposite sex, I'm puzzled how you think it's perfectly acceptable for you to insist that she pretends there are no other males besides YOU.

Meh... let's try this from a different approach. What exactly were you jealous of...? What exactly was her crime...?
[quote]If your partner is paying attention to someone other(opposite gender)[/quote]

What does that mean...? Was she hitting on him...? Stroking his arm...? Telling him secrets that she'd never tell you...? Seriously-- you are looking to cause her pain... so, what exactly did she do to deserve it...?

Nullifier · 22-25, M

@GwydionFrost she went on a date with him and yes she did hold his arm and whenever he texts she ignored my texts

GwydionFrost · 56-60, M

@Nullifier If she went on a date with him, then you don't have the EXCLUSIVE relationship you think you do.