Why do girls like such douchey guys?

So a few months ago there was this girl that was dating a guy but she wasn’t happy and thinking about dumping him so I tried to get with her and we would hang out and have a lot of fun with each other and you could tell she was emotionally cheating with me. So anyways I gave up, fast forward a few months and I guess she has a new bf now. This other guy we work with is a huge douchebag like a flaming douche and people agree with me but apparently this girl would cheat on her bf now to bang this douche and I just wanna know why? What makes girls so attracted to douchebags? Like I have a gf of 6 months now and don’t care about this other girl at all but it still annoys me that girls like douchebags.

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whateverhappens · 26-30, F

some girls like the verbal abuse it tingles their cunt

SW-User

@whateverhappens 😂😂

Miram · 31-35, F

Eh. I can't count the many times men called other men douchbags because they were rejected by their gfs..and women called other women whores or nuts because they were not getting the same attention.

Maybe the guy is indeed mean and assholic to you ,but he is good to her.

Cannabro · 36-40, M

Ofcourse he was nice to her ... He wants her pussy... I too lost a girl to a douchebag that was disliked by most coworkers but he was a Romeo to her... Asshole (not you, I mean the douchebag) @Miram

Miram · 31-35, F

@Cannabro I don't think it's losing her if she's already dating someone else. Yes, and most rely on their own short term benefits when selecting a partner, they are too quick to fall and too quick to leave.

Deeperminds · 46-50, F

Personally I like good guys with an edge. If they are way too nice and boring then I'm not interested. If he's nice and has good morals, but is one that is brave and won't put up with people's shit and drives a big loud truck or drives a motorcycle at 120 miles an hour, then I'm in. Girls like nice guys that are daredevils

SW-User

@Deeperminds 😂😂 those guys are practically unicorns.

Deeperminds · 46-50, F

Same reason guys like bitches with nasty attitudes. Powerful and authoritive

HannibalMontanimal · 26-30, M

Women like to live dangerously

Miram · 31-35, F

Also aren't you a douchbag for pursuing a woman that's taken? Why is your gf with you? 🤔

Daniel1120 · 26-30, M

@Miram see she was unhappy with her bf a lot and always talked about wanting to break up with him. Don’t think it douchey to try getting with a girl when their gonna end up breaking up. And no the dude is literally a douche. Like not just me but other guys and girls say the same thing. He’s just a cocky rich kid who thinks he’s the shit. And when did I ever say he treated me badly? He’s nice to me he’s just usually all about himself when he does.

Miram · 31-35, F

@Daniel1120 Even if she was unhappy, the two of you shouldn't have dated. Man, just make sure to not treat your gf in the way you hate for others to be treated.

GamerKitten · F

Not all girls do. Maybe you are looking into the wrong females.

SW-User

Not me. I rather have a nice guy.

SW-User

No, not all

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