Would someone please explain this to me?

Why is it that I attract all the wrong types of guys?
I’m a kind hearted person who has good morals and values with high standards. My friends and family would describe me as a sweetheart, kind, loving, and caring. I’m honest, loyal, trustworthy, faithful, respectful, would do anything for anyone, etc. but for some reason I attract guys who have been to jail, do drugs, cheaters, abusers, liars, have kids they don’t take care of, etc.
why??? Why can’t I meet someone who’s more like me???

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twistermind · 51-55, F

I’m agree with what @SW-User has said, that you are the only one who can reply to this question.
You could wonder yourself some questions to help you: Do you also feel some kind of attraction to them? Do you see them as somehow “needy” people? Do you show yourself or are very compassionate and understanding with people, no matter if they screwed it up at some point in their lives?
Normally, people who struggles with their lives or had made errors in the past find themselves very comfortable with people who are ready to give them a hand and not judge them for their past.