Would someone please explain this to me?

Why is it that I attract all the wrong types of guys?
I’m a kind hearted person who has good morals and values with high standards. My friends and family would describe me as a sweetheart, kind, loving, and caring. I’m honest, loyal, trustworthy, faithful, respectful, would do anything for anyone, etc. but for some reason I attract guys who have been to jail, do drugs, cheaters, abusers, liars, have kids they don’t take care of, etc.
why??? Why can’t I meet someone who’s more like me???

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Lizabee · F

Have you heard of the law of attraction? It’s very important

Quietbeauty · 36-40, F

@Lizabee like attracts like? Are you kidding me???

Lizabee · F

@Quietbeauty nope. I wouldn’t kid you. It’s very much the way the universe works.

Quietbeauty · 36-40, F

@Lizabee so your saying I’m a person who would go to jail, do drugs, cheat, etc? That’s pretty low and judgemental

Lizabee · F

@Quietbeauty I didn’t say that. The point is you attract the energy you put out. Be the person you want.

Quietbeauty · 36-40, F

@Lizabee what about my mom then? She’s the most loving, caring, compassionate, understanding, generous, thoughtful respectful etc person I have ever known, did she attract my father who turned out to be an abuser, liar, had an affair, is two faced, is loyal to no one, narcissistic, etc. am I supposed to believe that she attracted that kind of a person?