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Men never seem interested in me

I feel so sad, never dated anyone or had a boyfriend in my life before at the age of 22. Never even had one guy ask for my number before. I haven’t tried online dating before but whenever I am out in public, men never seem interested in me, never ask me out or approach me, return eye contact, never really hit on me, and it just makes me feel like I am ugly-like why can’t I get dates or find someone to even like me?

I am a thin/slim girl. I don't think I am ugly, I have gotten compliments from time to time. My dermatologist and hairdresser said I was pretty upon first meeting them. I wanted to get a small mole removed on my face and the plastic surgeon told me not to remove it since it was so small and told me not to mess up a pretty face. And one time my uber driver said I was beautiful. And when I told him I never had a boyfriend before, he said I would find someone. In college, not a single college student has hit on me. And I keep wondering why is my love life like this?
Cherylstiers41 · 51-55, F
I am a hairdresser and it seems you should chat to someone I hope you need to be cheeered up you are beautiful hun just remember that
@Cherylstiers41 Hi Cheryl. I wish you would add me. Get my hair done tomorrow! lol.
Chris xox.😊
Butterflykisses24 · 51-55, F
put a ring on lol They can't stay away from you then.
AbbyS94 · F
@Butterflykisses24 Hehe🙂 Personal experience?
Butterflykisses24 · 51-55, F
@AbbyS94 yes it is annoying.
AbbyS94 · F
@Butterflykisses24 I imagine so.
IBHappy · F
You need to put yourself out there. Be friendly and flirt a little. Join a gym or sone other hobby/ interest groups and meet people. Love typically doesn't come looking for you. Im one of those people that doesn't attract much male attention either. Im actually pretty shy until i am comfortable in a situation.
I don't recommend online dating. I had horrific experiences with it. But it's an option.
jackson55 · M
@IBHappy Morning B, how you been?
Agent86 · 51-55, M
Maybe you're gorgeous and guys are intimidated by your looks.
hippyjoe1955 · 61-69, M
What barriers and barricades do you have up that give the guys the impression you are not interested in dating?
daveal · 56-60, M
I am curious, do you socialize very much? Probably the best way to find a quality boyfriend is to make friends with people with no real goal of romance. Romantic attraction often takes time to build. In my opinion, the best and most lasting relationships are those born out of a good friendship first.
Cherylstiers41 · 51-55, F
@daveal I agree
ProfRS · 61-69, M
@Cherylstiers41 Hello, how are you? Just your neighborhood university professor...well I was going to say Spider Man (if you know the super hero line!?)
I think you have unrealistic expectations of being hit on
Alfarrobas · 31-35, M
It can be a couple of things. Maybe your expression is closed and harsh, so people tend to... go the other way.
You seem to way out of their league, and not easy to approach.
You don't seem confident enough.

Maybe others. But I don't know, I don't know you. And never saw you.
SerenitiesScars · 31-35, M
You could always make the first move yourself? From this post alone it doesn't seem like it's that big of a deal since there's not even anyone you're specifically interested in... So what good would some haphazard relationship do for you in that regards anyway?
Blackie · 51-55, M
I’m sure Cheryl gets tons of guys trying to talk to her
ElvishPresley · 22-25, T
You should try approaching them and see if it works.
mathsman · 70-79, M
So, what's the explanation?
SW-User
Guys are lame and gay
Ajz59852 · 36-40, M
I'm interested in you
Ajz59852 · 36-40, M
I'm interested in you
mathsman · 70-79, M
Don't give up
MethDozer · M
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