Ever have someone keep trying to push themselves on you?

Like romantically, even if you've shown no interest and have told them you have none.. but they keep trying to get in your "space?" say things like how they feel you're some sort of "kindred spirit" and how they need to be with you. How would you personally deal with this type of situation?

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FormerPadresfan · 26-30, M

I hate when that happens. Even though I deal with it A LOT. I even have a girlfriend and warn them about her. But Usually I make the mistake of telling them how far away she now lives. 75 percent still follow pursuit of me after telling them. If they still bother me I change my personality around them, telling them rude things like “Make me a sandwich” or “The kitchen’s that way”. Normally they find that talk to be more cute than hurtful and increase their momentum.
And when I’m drunk, few of them try to capitalize on it to see if they can get any action what so ever. One girl and her friend even ganged up on me in a drinking game just to get me FUCKED up so she can move in for the kill. I still managed to get out of that somehow lol. What’s with their obsession???

DancingStarGoddess ·

@FormerPadresfan oh wow , what the hell is wrong with them i don't think they understand that they could actually have charges pressed for taking advantage of you while you're intoxicated. and some chicks are fucked up like that. jesus