Do you know the areas where you don't do your fair share?

It's ok to have them. We're almost all humans.

I don't do enough of the 'feeling' in the relationship. I'm basically a robot husband. There's a slim chance I was built in a lab and all my memories are just code.

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JarJarBoom · 41-45, F

I think general decision making I kinda don't want to do...

CheshireCatalyst · 36-40, M

@JarJarBoom I used to be really bothered by this in relationships, but if you own it, what's the big deal? It just means you're flexible and open to new things right?

JarJarBoom · 41-45, F

@CheshireCatalyst I just don't want to deal with it anymore, because if I made a decision (something like if the kids can go stay at their cousins house) he would undermine my decision anyway..so I was like "I'm done"

CheshireCatalyst · 36-40, M

@JarJarBoom undermining is such shitty behaviour. The least he could do is wait for it to go wrong then raise an "I told you so" eyebrow.

Seriously though he's a ballbag.

JarJarBoom · 41-45, F

@CheshireCatalyst I just don't want to be yelled at if I make a shitty decision

CheshireCatalyst · 36-40, M

@JarJarBoom you're still in his bullshit narrative though. Why is it a shitty decision if he yells at it? He can get behind you or get the fuck out. 😡

Sorry if this is over angry all I've heard today are stories about shitty husbands.