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What should I do? I need a males opinion

I have been talking to this guys for almost a year on and off. We just started to get serious and we have been talking about him meeting my parents. I was totally freaked about the whole idea but he insisted that this is a great idea. He texted me the day of and asked if the plan was still on and I said yes... Everything was going great. We even talked about going away together for his birthday and him going on a couple's trip. Also i told him to meet me at my house in the evening around 6:00- 7:00 PM and he said okay. It's 6:00 and i have not heard from him since 3:30 PM and the time keeps going by. I call him and he does not pick up and i text him again to see where he is at and he does not reply. He doesn't even check his phone. The next day goes by and i call him and text him around 9:00 PM. Still no reply! I at first was worried but then i noticed he was liking a few pics on Instagram (yes, i was stalking him). Anyway, I text him saying something i shouldn't have... Now I'm realizing that maybe something happened to him and he's shunning me out or maybe he's with someone else. I have no idea what t
abe182 · 46-50, M
He ghosted on you. I'm sorry.
@abe182 Nope.
abe182 · 46-50, M
@FacelessSecret247 I didn't think so. I'll be blunt. You were stringing him along even tho you don't think you were.
Why were you never physical?
Kiss?
@abe182 umm... how was i stringing him along? And no we never kissed. We barely hung out in person. Last Sunday would have been our first time seeing each other after 4-5 months. I'm pretty much over it at this point and decided to move on anyway.
yeah he's hiding under his bed with a pizza and a handheld games console.
@GlueGun Lol maybe
abe182 · 46-50, M
Listen to me....
Are you listening....?

This wasn't about you.
Don't take it personally.
Move on now and don't ask questions just think about yourself and find someone else.
@abe182 Yeah, he liked two pics and he viewed one of my snaps...
abe182 · 46-50, M
@FacelessSecret247 so then he's not in the hospital
@abe182 No he's not.
english · 56-60, M
Although it possible he has ghosted you ,its is just as possible its an emergency ,or accident , give him till tomorrow am idk its a tough one.
@english Maybe but why say all that stuff to me though. He's the one that wanted to meet my parents and go out to dinner.
workathome · 51-55, M
yikes. I think you should text him or leave him a phone message telling him exactly how you are feeling!
@workathome I'm afraid he will not respond. I already texted him four times and called twice.
Virgo79 · 61-69, M
Kinda sounds like that's over.
@Virgo79 Maybe but I'm not giving up just yet.
Virgo79 · 61-69, M
@FacelessSecret247 that's understood.
Hope it works out for ya.
cycleman · 61-69, M
gr 8 homework needed completion
SW-User
@SW-User Hmm... idk. He's pretty upfront on what he wants.
Zonuss · 41-45, M
Maybe he is distracted by another female and is stringing you along. Or maybe he wants to take things slow. Just ask him and see where you two stand.give him an ultimatum. He either wants you or he don't. Don't play games. Good luck.
@Zonuss Maybe but he made it perfectly clear that he wasn't seeing anyone else. Lol i already texted him four times and called twice... I don't think he's going to respond to me. This is not like him at all to ignore me like this.
Zonuss · 41-45, M
@FacelessSecret247 Well maybe you just need to let that go. If he isn't talking he's letting you know you're not important. Anyway there is better for you.
@Zonuss Maybe you're right. Thank you

 
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