How would you feel if you found out that the initial reason someone was attracted to you was because of a fetish?

Example: you have blonde hair, they have a fetish for blonde hair, and that's the reason that they started talking to you

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Serenitree · F

I'm not sure about fetish. But I liked tall men with blue eyes. If that was the thing that first got my attention, it is any worse than someone attracted to blond hair. It only becomes a problem if they get weird and want to do *stuff* to your hair.

Paloma · 26-30, F

@Serenitree That's true. I want to make a distinction between preferences and fetishes here