How would you feel if you found out that the initial reason someone was attracted to you was because of a fetish?

Example: you have blonde hair, they have a fetish for blonde hair, and that's the reason that they started talking to you

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Peppa · 31-35, F

I would be insulted "much like when this guy decided to tell me the reason he came to the UK was to find black women as he is obsessed with them!"
Your no longer a person or special your generic and he'd date anyone once they fit that criteria and like him

Chickie · F

@Peppa This, fetishist are the worst and being boiled down to one part of yourself is disgusting.

I guess some people don't care as long as they get attention

Peppa · 31-35, F

@Chickie I was kind enough to not post some of the crude things he said to me following that. He was a weirdo. Who followed me onto the train.

Taking a preference to a fetish level that to me is a sign that my sole purpose is to fulfil his needs.