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ProdigalSummer · F
It was a pretty rough one.
I gave my my wedding rings back to my hubby yesterday. I’m still trying to figure out what that actually means. The uncertainty and tension is giving me massive amounts of anxiety.
I gave my my wedding rings back to my hubby yesterday. I’m still trying to figure out what that actually means. The uncertainty and tension is giving me massive amounts of anxiety.
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
@ProdigalSummer OMG. I'm here
JoyfulSilence · 46-50, M
@ProdigalSummer Oh, gosh. I am so sorry for the stress. I hope you land upright.
ProdigalSummer · F
@JoyfulSilence Im okay for now. Still trying to wrap my head around what I want and need.
ProdigalSummer · F
@uncalled4 that you.🤗
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
@ProdigalSummer Welcome
JoyfulSilence · 46-50, M
Gosh, it must be so hard with 4 kids in the picture, too. Agonizing.
ProdigalSummersHusband · 51-55, M
@ProdigalSummer It was a bad day for me too. Particularly because it feels like you are choosing similarworlds over our family and giving up on us. Maybe the rings lost meaning over the years. I dare say that over two years ago when you began leading a secret social life on here that you weren’t thinking of our marriage. Maybe I should have given my ring back to you after each of the times you crossed the line and broke trust on this site. I didn’t. I’m still by your side. Should I have given my ring back after seeing several times on here where you have belittled me and our marriage? I didn’t. I’m still by your side. None of this makes you a bad person. You are the most amazing person that I know. I’ve stood by your side for over a year and a half that I’ve known about your secret life on here. I’ve done that out of love, “Elle”. Do you think that things can be anything other than messed up in a relationship where one person is leading a secret life on a forum in which so many negative things have happened and trust has been broken? How can that not create a toxic relationship.
Elle, please take a break from similarworlds and seek help for your addiction to this site and depression. Please don’t let similarworlds continue to destroy our marriage and family. Please don’t let almost 25 years of memories be lost to this secret life. Here’s a link to what the wedding rings symbolize. I needed a refresher as well. I will continue to wear mine out of love for you and dedication to you until if there is ever a day that we are no longer married. I’m still by your side.
Elle, please take a break from similarworlds and seek help for your addiction to this site and depression. Please don’t let similarworlds continue to destroy our marriage and family. Please don’t let almost 25 years of memories be lost to this secret life. Here’s a link to what the wedding rings symbolize. I needed a refresher as well. I will continue to wear mine out of love for you and dedication to you until if there is ever a day that we are no longer married. I’m still by your side.
ProdigalSummersHusband · 51-55, M
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ProdigalSummer · F
@ProdigalSummersHusband thank you for clarifying it for me so very publicly. I’m still a broken, crazy lying whore. Got it.
JoyfulSilence · 46-50, M
@ProdigalSummer I blocked him. I did not think I could be objective. And I did not want my profile to be stalked.
All this just sucks. This place should be a refuge.
All this just sucks. This place should be a refuge.
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
I didn't block him. I was not about to engage, either, lest I mess something up between the two of you. Not taking a side, either. That's not what I do. I'm a divorced guy. I know what this is like, and if I could have done ANYTHING to stop it, I would have. But I couldn't.