Chatting online is cheating?

If you're married or in a relationship and you chat without them knowing...is that cheating?

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StarLily · 51-55, F

Not neccessarily, depends on what you're chatting about... but why you would have to do it without them knowing might be a problem.

Spoiledbrat · F

Privacy? Maybe they need someone to talk to or confide in. @StarLily

StarLily · 51-55, F

@Spoiledbrat I need that a lot too, and my boyfriend knows about it, I don't have to do it without him knowing about it or vice versa. If we both felt we had to hide it from each other then I don't think we would want a relationship with each other... but that's our feelings on it, is different for everyone.