men get painted as the sex obsessed of the two genders, yet 90% of competition entrees on my family's sex shop comps are female?

@Mrsbetweenfatandfit So it isn't true that men generally get painted as the sex obsessed of the two genders?

@pianoplayingsteve in my opinion it has to do with their pursuit of it more than women. Seeking a sexual partner does not make someone a pervert. But I think the many negative experiences with men who are not so graceful socially led to that generalization. But just my own thoughts

@Mrsbetweenfatandfit I wouldn't say men pursue it more. It's just they have to initiate it. A woman will get attention simply for being a woman on the internet. "pervert" was probably not the right word. I meant simply that men are painted as being more after sex, as highlighted by you saying "it has to do with their pursuit of it more than women". I wouldn't say men are after it more. In my opinion, and as suggested by who shows interest in my competitions, it's more women who are.

@pianoplayingsteve that’s what I meant by pursue it more. They are normally the ones to chat up the women rather than the other way around. And so because many guys again are not very graceful socially it spreads that they are ‘sexy crazy’ tact goes a long way

@Mrsbetweenfatandfit But for men to go into a club designed for such hookups and initiate a conversation with a woman, she'd have to be in that club looking for the same thing to. Just because it's social convention for men to initiate the process, it doesn't mean women aren't after it.

@pianoplayingsteve I didn’t say they weren’t. You seem to not be understanding me. The generalization doesn’t exist merely because of the thought that men want sex more than women it is because of the negative interactions many people have with the men looking for sex. That is my point

@Mrsbetweenfatandfit I think I see what you mean. Yes, there are many awkward men that send very awkward messages or say very awkward things to women, for sex. I find it as horrible as the next person. I'm merely stating that many women are just as bad, they just have different ways of going about it xD If some slutty girl hangs around Mcdonalds with chavy sex obsessed guys in a tight miniskirt turning everything into a sexual innuendo, and one of those guys makes a sexual advance, in my eyes, if society deems one of those a sexual deviant, then they both are. Thank you for keeping the conversation civil by the way :) The amount of people who are passive aggressive, make a mistake when insulting you and then take the stance of "you're too stupid to even talk to, bye" when they realise they've made a mistake can be frustrating xD

@pianoplayingsteve yeah exactly seen it plenty of times. There are men and women alike that are up for casual sex or just are very sexual in their relationships. I don’t see the point in shaming anyone. Except of course those that won’t listen to a simple no from a person but persist, that’s annoying to any of us. Most of us like sex men or women more ehh as long as we are respectful no need for it to be a thing looked down on. No worries I too hate being roped into an argument I have no interest in. Take care

@Mrsbetweenfatandfit I'm glad that we can agree that we see that. :D Ah no! Don't be one of those people that view any conversation more meaningful than what's on tv that lasts for more than 5 exchanges an "argument" xD It's why most posts on here are absolutely brainless xD

@pianoplayingsteve when insults begin it is an argument for sure which happens rapidly online

@Mrsbetweenfatandfit I never insulted you? I complimented you for not resorting to name calling...

@pianoplayingsteve I know. I said too hate being roped into an argument in reply to saying when they start insulting you saying you’re too stupid etc. you said don’t be one of those people who calls a more than 5 exchanges an argument. I said it becomes one after an insult. That’s all wasn’t saying you had insulted anything

@Mrsbetweenfatandfit But when you said "take care" just after saying " No worries I too hate being roped into an argument I have no interest in." It seemed like you meant I was making an argument and you wanted to leave xD

@pianoplayingsteve no take care is what I say when I exit a conversation.

@Mrsbetweenfatandfit Yeah exactly, "i hate being roped into an argument that i have no interest in" *exits conversation* which looks like you mean we were having an argument that you had no interest in lol

@pianoplayingsteve I didn’t intend for that. I thought we’d both made our points clear of the topic and usually once that’s done you finish up and move on