Are all your exes ugly?

Many would say their exes are but would it mean that their relationship was only ugly thing not exactly the physique. I would consider one my exes as not so handsome though he's tall and very fit. Among 4 exes he's the least attractive. The one I dated for 4 years. When he wanted life to go fast, I decide to end what we have...all I can say he is uglier emotionally..