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i'm an artist and creative type, i'd love dating someone like me. it's hard dating people who don't "get" it.
Sb356 · 26-30, F
@DancingStarGoddess I understand that lol personally I'll date anyone, doesn't have to be a creative type but it does have its advantages.
@Sb356 i always date whomever i have chemistry with whomever flicks the proper mental switches, bit they never seem to want to be encouraging, in fact most say they feel inferior in some way because i do so many things, and am so creative. it's not my intention to make them feel as such, but it's almost like they desire me to be less of who and what i am so they don't feel badly and that seems wrong. why not let a butterfly be a butterfly and soar with them?
Sb356 · 26-30, F
@DancingStarGoddess I agree! I feel that way too. Sometimes I get worried that there's too much to me sometimes and guys won't like that. That I'd rather be a cute girl with nothing to talk about lol
@Sb356 right!? exactly! a lot of the people i date end up almst trying to belittle me s discourage me or tear me down, whatever i show them suddenly instead of constructive ciriticisms, or anything good turns to all negativity and whatever, some even try competing and id ont understand at all. i encourage everything they do. but when it comes to myself. i cant get the same in return.
Sb356 · 26-30, F
Maybe they are intimidated but fuck it. We just need someone who can handle all of it. Lol!