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Peppa · 31-35, F
I am single, I've been a little careless in recent years just going for the instant gratification under the vice of looking for love.
But I'm still too hurt from a previous situation and previous relationship.
It's time to change my priorities...
But I'm still too hurt from a previous situation and previous relationship.
It's time to change my priorities...
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AngelPassion · 31-35, F
@Peppa I think love is a good priority to have, maybe it’s just a matter of taking things slower with it tho. Like learning how to play an instrument
Peppa · 31-35, F
@AngelPassion I loved two people dearly. My father and my ex boyfriend. But they both hurt me really bad.
I won't go into too much but it made me doubt my ex a lot. But he didn't install confidence in me. So things happened. I am broken. But I was so convinced I wasn't part of the issue I just tried to find whoever to be with. You end up with the wrong types like that it's like a self fulfilling prophecy "all men are dogs" that's what you meet (it's too rushed and there's no foundation to the relationship.
I won't go into too much but it made me doubt my ex a lot. But he didn't install confidence in me. So things happened. I am broken. But I was so convinced I wasn't part of the issue I just tried to find whoever to be with. You end up with the wrong types like that it's like a self fulfilling prophecy "all men are dogs" that's what you meet (it's too rushed and there's no foundation to the relationship.
AngelPassion · 31-35, F
@Peppa exactly, sometimes you just gotta take a step back and analyze the type of people who you’re pursuing and really think about the kind of man you want to be with. Otherwise you’ll keep ending up with the ones who hurt you and break your heart
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Peppa · 31-35, F
@TheeOriginalEXLover I desperately want to get married. There's only one person I could see it happening with but I don't trust so easily.
I don't know if his intentions were genuine. And I never felt like he had my back with things I really needed help with.
"You always want someone to hold your hand" is something he would say to me. When all I ever needed was to talk things through about my relationship with my father. I needed a objective/male perspective.
I now realise he wasn't ready.
It's funny really because whilst we were together he wanted me to get a laptop on credit, needed money to get to work, pay his bills, needed me to help tidy his place, do his laundry. Whilst for the most part I would ask him when I'd see him again, and I got down as he was hardly around.
He was never satisfied with me as I was. (Too fat (size 12 too thin (size 6 my weight yo-yo'd trying to please him)
I don't know if his intentions were genuine. And I never felt like he had my back with things I really needed help with.
"You always want someone to hold your hand" is something he would say to me. When all I ever needed was to talk things through about my relationship with my father. I needed a objective/male perspective.
I now realise he wasn't ready.
It's funny really because whilst we were together he wanted me to get a laptop on credit, needed money to get to work, pay his bills, needed me to help tidy his place, do his laundry. Whilst for the most part I would ask him when I'd see him again, and I got down as he was hardly around.
He was never satisfied with me as I was. (Too fat (size 12 too thin (size 6 my weight yo-yo'd trying to please him)
AngelPassion · 31-35, F
@TheeOriginalEXLover I was responding to the girl but I guess I know now
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AngelPassion · 31-35, F
@TheeOriginalEXLover it happens
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AngelPassion · 31-35, F
@TheeOriginalEXLover Thanks you too!