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SW-User
Yes. He's logical and I get emotional. His logic pisses me off lol.

SW-User
@SW-User Maybe he needs to be told cause he may not be paying attention to what you need?
NiftyWhite · 46-50, F
@SW-User think she’s pissed off cause she knows he’s actually right

SW-User
@NiftyWhite Then what about you? I'm not sure Mango entirely loves her boyfriends logic ..
NiftyWhite · 46-50, F
@SW-User what about me?

SW-User
@NiftyWhite Do you feel he does?
NiftyWhite · 46-50, F
@SW-User no he doesn’t . he acts like a 4 year old.

SW-User
@NiftyWhite Give how he argues back to him. And if you can't find from him what you need, move on.
NiftyWhite · 46-50, F
@SW-User can’t. i married him. we never fought before marriage. idk wtf happened

SW-User
@NiftyWhite Tell you and him to get your acts together?
NiftyWhite · 46-50, F
@SW-User no shit. it’s completely exhausting

SW-User
@NiftyWhite Then lets take fair out of the equation - you fight and it's exhausting. What do you feel you should do?
NiftyWhite · 46-50, F
@SW-User get help or get out

SW-User
@NiftyWhite What do you want?
NiftyWhite · 46-50, F
ideally it would be nice if we could figure it out on our own. if not then get help and if not then try harder again ourselves and if not then get out @SW-User

SW-User
@NiftyWhite Then try, but it must be a two way street and open.
NiftyWhite · 46-50, F
he would try. he seriously has no conflict resolution skills though. it’s better for a therapist to tell him than me.@SW-User