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NiftyWhite · 46-50, F
be cautious with this. assess the situation and how it will be received. do u have things in common? are you her “type”? is she even interested in finding someone??? does she have a broken heart or any issue she needs to work through? cause one time a friend so hopefully told me he liked me with anticipation in his eyes ... timing was all wrong to start. but even if it was right, i felt nothing for him....and that made things awkward for a very long time. even today things are kinda off - 5 years later cause he’s in my circle of friends and uhmmm i married someone else. lol
Science78 · 36-40, M
@NiftyWhite now i can never tell her
NiftyWhite · 46-50, F
@Science78 how come lol
Science78 · 36-40, M
@NiftyWhite youve scared me straight.
NiftyWhite · 46-50, F
@Science78 hahaha. all i’m saying is assess it so neither of you feel awkward if she’s not into you.
in my situation he asked me a few months after a two major losses in my life - my ex and the death of a parent. k i was so fukked in the head i wouldn’t have dated anyone but to boot, he looooooved TV, (i hate it) he hated being active (i love it) and although very nice, he was not the type of guy i could see myself being sexual with, plus he had a kid which i wasn’t prepared to get into. Assess what she wants/ needs in a relatnsp.
in my situation he asked me a few months after a two major losses in my life - my ex and the death of a parent. k i was so fukked in the head i wouldn’t have dated anyone but to boot, he looooooved TV, (i hate it) he hated being active (i love it) and although very nice, he was not the type of guy i could see myself being sexual with, plus he had a kid which i wasn’t prepared to get into. Assess what she wants/ needs in a relatnsp.
Science78 · 36-40, M
So if i kill her parents and ask her to date me she will say yes? hmmm
