Should I feel as hurt as I do?

On new years day we spent the day with my partners family. We were having a good time until they got talking about a friend of theirs, this friend has a girlfriend and my partner commented on how good looking she was and said that he would go with her if she wanted him too. This hurt like hell, I know he was joking around but its been 2 days and it has me on rock bottom. I suffer from depression and I have been constantly thinking about what he said, I now feel like I am inadequate, that I am not good enough the way I am. It is really getting me down and I have no idea what to do about it.

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HELL YEAH. I WOULDVE CALLED HIM OUT ON HIS BULLSHIT RIGHT THEN AND THERE

that is soooooo fucking disrespectful. Fucking pig.

I've felt that level of disrespect, and it's confusing. You don't want to make comments like that okay, but you also don't know if it's enough to leave him.

I don't know, girl. That's beyond disrespectful, and I don't blame you for feeling that way at all.

Try talking to him and let him know how it made you feel.

Chances are he's just stupid and didn't be mean it. What he responds to you with is something to watch.

He will either try to fix it or leave it for you to deal with.