Would you get into a potentially serious relationship with someone you weren't physically attracted to?

Tricky question. Idealy if you fall for someone emotionally then that will make you want to please them and be pleased by them physically. Thus growing an attraction in that sense. But many people find it difficult to reach that point. I think the key is to find something you do like avout thier body and build from there. Learn to like the ins and outs of who they are physically as well as mentally

I'm attracted to the whole person. Looks aren't as important as their personality and kindness.

It's the personality for me

actually, tbh yes. in the sense of companionship, if i knew they would be there, and we had everything else in common, i could overlook that part. because honestly when it comes down to it, sometimes you just fuckin need somebody. sex and all that is nice, but sex isn't going to make my sick ass feel better when i'm not feeling well, or pick up my meds, or pick me up lunch, or give a shit if i ate today or whatever else. but a true genuine companion, who actually loves me could, would and might. it's something to really consider i think. it's not for everybody, but i could do it. their heart would make me overlook the rest, and i'd find them beautiful anyways

idk i think there has to be both physical and mental attraction. cant have one or the other youll end up getting bored or loss of connection.

I guess there have to be a mentally attraction, and some of that will also be influenced by the physically attraction. I suspect.

For me there has to be a physical attraction to even become involved to go to the next level.

Don't think so..i mean its a long term relationship...besides not being attracted to you S.O seems off and might lead to cheating

It would depend what he looks like.

I am considering it after all.

Probably...

The only people I would not is bed ridden, because of size,because how can you? (Still believe in being compassionate with them)

Or those who will not practice hygine...just can't deal with that.

Looks mean little to me...it is attitude and kindness that matters most.

Sounds kind of doomed.

Anyone who says looks aren't as important as personality hasn't watched hunchback of Notre dame.

Yes, I do think you can grow to find someone attractive if they have an attractive personality.

I did. I would never describe him as handsome, much less gorgeous, but I was attracted to his personality. His true personality soon caught up to his physical looks and it fizzled out. Had he not been such an immature, impulsive, temperamental liar we could have made it, despite the fact that I wasn't physically attracted to him.