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Don't let him use you. A married man with kids doesn't have much to offer someone your age. Believe me, you can do better.
retrowaves · 31-35, F
@GirlwiththeFarawayEyes he's divorced. But yeah, i don't really think he could have much in common with me

From my experiences I wouldn’t be interested, I wouldn’t see it as a serious relationship or something I’d want in the future as to why I wouldn’t even bother. I’d want to someone I could grow with and relate more too, I wouldn’t date someone I work with either I prefer to just keep work professional and simple.
Men that much older who show an interest usually seem to be interested in a casual relationship and I find them to be especially immature but it all depends on the person and not to say it can’t work it’s really up to you and what you want in a relationship.
Are you into him?

My experience with the older ones is that they don't necesarrily want to go out and do things. They've already passed that stage. Then kids.... you may want them, but they've been down that road. You want to make a home... they want to retire in a small condo in Boca.

which is to say, make sure your interests are aligned....and you're headed toward the same future.
Rusham · M
A good rule for dating with age difference is to keep within this formula. Half the oldest age and add seven years. Example if he is 40 then unless you are 27 you are too young for him. However I know of several very successful exceptions to this rule.
@Rusham that’s cool
SW-User
like men on here a lot of older men seem to hit on and seek out younger women. its all hormones and thinking that they are still 20 something year olds. wont have much in common with someone that age.
JollyRoger · 70-79, M
@SW-User Hey.... whoa!!!! You young whipper-snapper!! Sure it's hormones.... what else is it? LOVE???
SW-User
If he doesn't know you well, then he probably just thinks you look nice, lol.Seems a bit shallow.🤷
SW-User
@JollyRoger That too, he just seems like he wants a hookup. Especially so random, not formal or very well done. He didn't think it through a lot.And she doesn't seem to know him so I doubt he would know her well either, that's why it's shallow
@SW-User I agree seems highly unprofessional for his age and inappropriate mainly because it’s at work, even then I felt he could have gone about it in a better way given his age seems something a teen boy would do. Seems like he’s into something more casual.
SW-User
@Stark Yepppp, too suspicious if you ask me. Just probably looking to get laid cause he can't get anyone😒
Kaitlyn · 46-50, F
I wouldn't date someone from work no matter what his age. Older men know how to treat a lady so don't let age be a barrier when dating.
SW-User
It might be fun to see what happens. New year, new "adventures." ☺
hippyjoe1955 · 70-79, M
So are you going to try dating him?
retrowaves · 31-35, F
@hippyjoe1955 I don't know..I don't think so. It doesn't seem like it'd really work out with such a big age difference.
hippyjoe1955 · 70-79, M
I have known several people with 20 years age difference and they were very happy in their lasting marriage. I don't think it would work for me but then that is just me.
Wiiiiiiiiii · 51-55, M
Older men do it better! Take the money and run...
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
I would date a woman twice my age.

 
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