A while because I'm not vulgar, rude or disrespectful even when giving myself a talking to..I ended a 15 yr friendship last year because they totally flipped over something I said that wasn't rude or offensive, they took it the wrong way I explained myself and everyone said it was ridiculous how they reacted swearing and abusive, they wouldnt apologise even when I had said sorry if it upset them but it wasn't meant in the way they took it..I won't be disrespected when I don't do it..