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What to do? What to do?

Few years ago i got in touch with a old bf one i loved more then life. He lives in another state currently so our main form of communication is social media. When we got in contact after Many years of no contact i had a new relationship i was honest with him. He would often bring up our past and once i found myself talking to him on the phone i realised what was conspiring i stopped it. He met someone and disappeared. Fast forward a year later he found himself in a low place he reached out to me. And i was again kind but even more distant i felt like he was at his worst and just needed a ego boost. 10 months we went without talking but suddenly hes back and is sending puzzeling messages. Im worried about some of the things that come across social media posted by him mostly. It seems to be leaving his other friends very confused as well. I feel like i understand what hes doing or saying. Im just not sure how to tell forsure. Or why he expects my reaction to be so currently i havent reacted at all. However i am struggleinf with being entertained by his games and worried for him.
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LyricalOne · F
Sounds like a troubled soul. What happens if you flat out ask him what’s going on?
Givemelife · 36-40, F
@LyricalOne he wont respond or on the off chance he does he tells "never waste your worries on me". And then he will change the subject
LyricalOne · F
@Givemelife Bit of a mind effer. Probably be best to steer clear of him and his drama.
Givemelife · 36-40, F
@LyricalOne im trying i know its best but this last time it was to close to home for me and to see him in phsyical pain is beyond hurtful. Pices of me feel hes making joke out of my past the other piece says his illness is deeper then i imagined.
LyricalOne · F
@Givemelife What can you do if he won’t let you in?
Givemelife · 36-40, F
@LyricalOne ahhh nothing i will not tred where im not welcome. I do worry the times i let it pass and say nothing it escaltes to more serious things the times i do say things i feel like hes emotionally winning some game hes created. i once deleted him from social meida. And 2 months later he had his sister reach out to me. I suppose this i not fall for it.
LyricalOne · F
@Givemelife The only “winning” is taking yourself out of the game.