Why do I do this to myself?

Why do I always pick people all wrong for me? In so many different ways.... (reflecting on choices I've made 😓😓)

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firefall · 61-69, M

you can learn not to do it, believe it or not. We all start with a script in our head of what we find attractive, wanted, but we can rewrite it .. somewhat, at least

silver1sil · 26-30, F

@firefall I always have a list of qualities I like checked.

firefall · 61-69, M

@silver1sil time to revise that list, maybe?

silver1sil · 26-30, F

Honestly, probably but sometimes I feel if I add some things it becomes unrealistic.?

firefall · 61-69, M

@silver1sil add some and drop some? the current combination sounds like it's not getting you what you need

silver1sil · 26-30, F

@firefall oh! I didn't actually think of dropping any since I feel their core things I'd like in a person